Extract hooks into dedicated crate (#11311)

Summary
- move `core/src/hooks` implementation into a new `codex-hooks` crate
with its own manifest
- update `codex-rs` workspace and `codex-core` crate to depend on the
extracted `hooks` crate and wire up the shared APIs
- ensure references, modules, and lockfile reflect the new crate layout

Testing
- Not run (not requested)

codex-rs/hooks/BUILD.bazel

@@ -0,0 +1,6 @@
+load("//:defs.bzl", "codex_rust_crate")
+
+codex_rust_crate(
+    name = "hooks",
+    crate_name = "codex_hooks",
+)