fix: accept two macOS automation input shapes for approval payload compatibility (#13683)

## Summary
This PR:
1. fixes a deserialization mismatch for macOS automation permissions in
approval payloads by making core parsing accept both supported wire
shapes for bundle IDs.
2. added `#[serde(default)]` to `MacOsSeatbeltProfileExtensions` so
omitted fields deserialize to secure defaults.


## Why this change is needed
`MacOsAutomationPermission` uses `#[serde(try_from =
"MacOsAutomationPermissionDe")]`, so deserialization is controlled by
`MacOsAutomationPermissionDe`. After we aligned v2
`additionalPermissions.macos.automations` to the core shape, approval
payloads started including `{ "bundle_ids": [...] }` in some paths.
`MacOsAutomationPermissionDe` previously accepted only `"none" | "all"`
or a plain array, so object-shaped bundle IDs failed with `data did not
match any variant of untagged enum MacOsAutomationPermissionDe`. This
change restores compatibility by accepting both forms while preserving
existing normalization behavior (trim values and map empty bundle lists
to `None`).

## Validation

saw this error went away when running
```
cargo run -p codex-app-server-test-client -- \
    --codex-bin ./target/debug/codex \
    -c 'approval_policy="on-request"' \
    -c 'features.shell_zsh_fork=true' \
    -c 'zsh_path="/tmp/codex-zsh-fork/package/vendor/aarch64-apple-darwin/zsh/macos-15/zsh"' \
    send-message-v2 --experimental-api \
    'Use $apple-notes and run scripts/notes_info now.'
```
:
```
Error: failed to deserialize ServerRequest from JSONRPCRequest

Caused by:
    data did not match any variant of untagged enum MacOsAutomationPermissionDe
```

codex-rs/app-server-protocol/schema/json/EventMsg.json

@@ -3794,24 +3794,30 @@
     "MacOsSeatbeltProfileExtensions": {
       "properties": {
         "macos_accessibility": {
+          "default": false,
           "type": "boolean"
         },
         "macos_automation": {
-          "$ref": "#/definitions/MacOsAutomationPermission"
+          "allOf": [
+            {
+              "$ref": "#/definitions/MacOsAutomationPermission"
+            }
+          ],
+          "default": "none"
         },
         "macos_calendar": {
+          "default": false,
           "type": "boolean"
         },
         "macos_preferences": {
-          "$ref": "#/definitions/MacOsPreferencesPermission"
+          "allOf": [
+            {
+              "$ref": "#/definitions/MacOsPreferencesPermission"
+            }
+          ],
+          "default": "read_only"
         }
       },
-      "required": [
-        "macos_accessibility",
-        "macos_automation",
-        "macos_calendar",
-        "macos_preferences"
-      ],
       "type": "object"
     },
     "McpAuthStatus": {